Showing posts with label trauma. Show all posts
Showing posts with label trauma. Show all posts
Monday, April 08, 2013
Switching Time by Richard Baer
Switching Time, Richard Baer. New York: Crown Publishers, 2007. ebook, 295 pps.
Like a large percentage of people diagnosed with Multiple Personality Disorder or Dissociative Identity Disorder [depending up what year the diagnosis was made], Karen-- a pseudonym-- had endured horrendous abuse by her family as a child. Subsequently, she hooked up with an abusive mate. In her struggle to break free of that, she began therapy with Richard Baer.
At some point, Karen's alters began to surface and communicate with her therapist. They had a litany of complaints. Karen herself was conscious only of losing time. Losing time is like an alcoholic blackout caused by the shifting of alters-- the body continues to function and have a life but the brain does not remember later-- who will say and do things that the core will not. Eventually, Karen developed co-consciousness with varying alters. She also recovered specific memories of ritual abuse.
By the end of the book, Karen integrated and gave permission for the book to be written. She reportedly furnished many corrections and expansions but was satisfied with the execution of her case study.
The part of the book that fascinated me was the description of Karen's parents. Her father went to trial for the sexual abuse of a young niece. Karen was tricked into taking her mother to the hospital to pick up her father after his discharge. He had been found to have metastasized cancer. In typical fashion, her parents blamed Karen for his woes. They also had the expectation that she would drop in on her father daily to check on his well-being while her mother was away. When she refused, they informed her that she owed this service to them and that she was an ingrate.
sapphoq reviews says: Switching Time is the typical story of woman diagnosed with multiple personalities written by her therapist after her integration. Those singletons who enjoy television shows where laundry is aired in public and those who are fascinated by the concept of multiple personalities will probably like Switching Time. I hesitate to recommend Switching Time. There is something about not wishing to encourage other folks on the D.I.D. continuum to allow their stories to be told by professional helpers. Those who are triggered by reading about childhood sexual abuse ought to stay away entirely. On the question: Can more than one "personality" exist in one body? I remain neutral. I want to say that horrific childhood abuse can do that to someone. Yet I hesitate because the literature is also filled with stories of childhood "satanic" ritual abuse and references to snuff films. Sort of not recommended.
Wednesday, October 10, 2012
Adele, et. al., by Adele R. Fors
Adele et. al.,: Jehovah's Witnesses, Hells Angels, Serial Killers, Dissociative Identity Disorder... and a 14-year-old Run-Away. 2011: Smashwords Edition ebook, 165 pps.
Adele grew up in a Jehovah's Witness family. There were problems. Her father was undemonstrative and pre-occupied with Kingdom Hall Elder matters. Her mother was unhappy with this and also unable to reach Adele emotionally. When Adele was fourteen years old, she was disfellowshipped.
For several years Adele hung out with various outlaw bikers, hooked up with a few men, and became a prostitute of her own volition. At seventeen, she turned up pregnant and went crawling back to the Kingdom Hall to beg forgiveness. She progressed into adulthood and pointedly identified that she had other personalities inside of her. She got into psychiatric treatment and a bad marriage, had jobs and lost the last one, was in University. And she was once again disfellowshipped.
sapphoq reviews says: I've known a few folks who were diagnosed with Dissociative Identity Disorder [what used to be called Multiple Personality Disorder]. Although Adele alluded to this diagnosis in her ebook and named several members of her system, I was unable to get a good feel for what her different personas were like nor for the transition between them. This is vastly different from my experience with D.I.D. acquaintances. Their personas had distinct personalities and not just distinct ages. The other memoirs that I've read about D.I.D. folk were convincing in their descriptions of their alters. Adele's descriptions were not.
At the same time, I must admit that I have zero professional qualifications in respect to dissociative disorders and I've never met Adele. After M.P.D. became a controversial diagnosis, its' name got changed. Even so, the arguments over it did not cease publicly or privately. Forgive me audience if I am somewhat skeptical over the whole D.I.D. thing.
I do know that it is an act of bravery when anyone talks about their psychiatric symptoms. Adele certainly is brave, and a survivor of a bunch of really traumatic stuff like multiple rapes. I was saddened to discover that she was disfellowshipped [the first time] at the age of fourteen and therefore effectively thrown out of her parents' home.
Adele et. al. did not totally sustain my interest. Thus I find I cannot recommend this book.
Adele grew up in a Jehovah's Witness family. There were problems. Her father was undemonstrative and pre-occupied with Kingdom Hall Elder matters. Her mother was unhappy with this and also unable to reach Adele emotionally. When Adele was fourteen years old, she was disfellowshipped.
For several years Adele hung out with various outlaw bikers, hooked up with a few men, and became a prostitute of her own volition. At seventeen, she turned up pregnant and went crawling back to the Kingdom Hall to beg forgiveness. She progressed into adulthood and pointedly identified that she had other personalities inside of her. She got into psychiatric treatment and a bad marriage, had jobs and lost the last one, was in University. And she was once again disfellowshipped.
sapphoq reviews says: I've known a few folks who were diagnosed with Dissociative Identity Disorder [what used to be called Multiple Personality Disorder]. Although Adele alluded to this diagnosis in her ebook and named several members of her system, I was unable to get a good feel for what her different personas were like nor for the transition between them. This is vastly different from my experience with D.I.D. acquaintances. Their personas had distinct personalities and not just distinct ages. The other memoirs that I've read about D.I.D. folk were convincing in their descriptions of their alters. Adele's descriptions were not.
At the same time, I must admit that I have zero professional qualifications in respect to dissociative disorders and I've never met Adele. After M.P.D. became a controversial diagnosis, its' name got changed. Even so, the arguments over it did not cease publicly or privately. Forgive me audience if I am somewhat skeptical over the whole D.I.D. thing.
I do know that it is an act of bravery when anyone talks about their psychiatric symptoms. Adele certainly is brave, and a survivor of a bunch of really traumatic stuff like multiple rapes. I was saddened to discover that she was disfellowshipped [the first time] at the age of fourteen and therefore effectively thrown out of her parents' home.
Adele et. al. did not totally sustain my interest. Thus I find I cannot recommend this book.
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